Letters of Recommendation Tips: Part 1

Kendra_Solis · February 27

Strong recommendation letters can make a big difference in a college application!

1. Start Early and Plan Ahead:

Timeline Awareness: Understand college application deadlines and work backward to determine when recommendation requests should be made.
Junior Year Focus: Encourage your child to build strong relationships with teachers and counselors during their junior year, as these individuals are likely to write recommendations.

2. Facilitate Open Communication:

Student-Teacher Connection: Encourage your child to proactively engage with their teachers, participate in class, and seek extra help when needed. This helps teachers get to know them beyond their grades.
Parental Support (Not Interference): Offer gentle reminders and support, but avoid directly contacting teachers on your child's behalf unless absolutely necessary. The recommendations should reflect your child's initiative.

3. Provide Helpful Resources:

Recommendation Packets: Help your child create a "brag sheet" or recommendation packet. This should include:
- A list of their academic achievements, extracurricular activities, and awards.
- A personal statement or essay draft.
- Information about the colleges they are applying to and their intended major.
- A list of their strengths and qualities.
- Any specific experiences or anecdotes they would like the recommender to highlight.
Guidance on Asking: Help your child practice how to respectfully request a letter of recommendation. Emphasize the importance of asking in person and providing ample time.

4. Respect Recommender's Time:

Provide Deadlines: Ensure your child provides clear deadlines to their recommenders.
Express Gratitude: Encourage your child to send thank-you notes to their recommenders after the letters have been submitted.
Waiver of Access: Make sure your child understands the importance of waiving their right to view the recommendation. Colleges value candid and honest letters.

Stay tuned for part 2 where we will share 4 final tips!

In the meantime, what tips do you have for securing strong recommendation letters? Comment below!